Whether it's a marriage, vow renewal or same-sex ceremony this is your day and should be everything you want it to be.
We'll send you a copy of Koko's non-denominational ceremony in advance to make sure he is the Kahu (minister) you're looking for. You'll then have the opportunity to make changes or additions to the vows. Rituals that are meaningful to you may also be included. There are many cultural aspects included in his ceremony which he is more than happy to explain to you. Kahu will give you a copy of your ceremony as a keepsake.
Kahu is also available to perform family, land and home blessings.
Hawaiian customs to add to your ceremony:
Oli or chant - Kahu's ceremony begins with an oli that invites your ancestors and his, and family that weren't able to be a part of your special occasion.
Exchanging Lei - is a custom of sharing your aloha for one another. You can see the many choices on our Services page.
Pu Kāne - the conch shell (pu) is traditionally blown by a kāne (male) to signify the start and end of an important event.
Music - the two songs most associated with weddings in Hawaiʻi are Ke Kali Nei Au, the Engagement song and Lei Aloha Lei Makamae, the Wedding song. The sweet sound of an ʻukulele or guitar can be the beginning and ending to your ceremony. You may also request songs to be included.
The Marriage License
You are now able to apply and pay for your license online at https://emrs.ehawaii.gov. You may apply for your license up to a year from your ceremony date, but suggest you wait until closer to your date. The license is valid for 30 days from the time the licensing agent on Kauaʻi prints out your application. The cost is $65.00.
•Both bride and groom still need to appear before a licensing agent on Kauaʻi with current
photo ID - driver's license or passport. You'll also need the locator number found in the top right hand corner of your application (no need to print it out). Most agents are now charging $5.00 to cover their printing costs. Licensing agents are located around the island and require an appointment for which I am happy to assist you with.
•The license is given to Kahu at the time of the ceremony. He then verifies the license and attests to performing the ceremony on the Dept. of Health website. You're able to access a printable copy of your temporary marriage certificate after 72 business hours. You'll receive your official marriage certificate in the mail in approximately 90 days or sooner. If you want to expedite the process there is a form that you'll be given when you apply for your license, for which there is an extra fee.
•Witnesses are no longer required to sign the marriage certificate, however, there are 2 lines where they may do so if you have family or friends attending your ceremony
and want to include them.
We'll send you a copy of Koko's non-denominational ceremony in advance to make sure he is the Kahu (minister) you're looking for. You'll then have the opportunity to make changes or additions to the vows. Rituals that are meaningful to you may also be included. There are many cultural aspects included in his ceremony which he is more than happy to explain to you. Kahu will give you a copy of your ceremony as a keepsake.
Kahu is also available to perform family, land and home blessings.
Hawaiian customs to add to your ceremony:
Oli or chant - Kahu's ceremony begins with an oli that invites your ancestors and his, and family that weren't able to be a part of your special occasion.
Exchanging Lei - is a custom of sharing your aloha for one another. You can see the many choices on our Services page.
Pu Kāne - the conch shell (pu) is traditionally blown by a kāne (male) to signify the start and end of an important event.
Music - the two songs most associated with weddings in Hawaiʻi are Ke Kali Nei Au, the Engagement song and Lei Aloha Lei Makamae, the Wedding song. The sweet sound of an ʻukulele or guitar can be the beginning and ending to your ceremony. You may also request songs to be included.
The Marriage License
You are now able to apply and pay for your license online at https://emrs.ehawaii.gov. You may apply for your license up to a year from your ceremony date, but suggest you wait until closer to your date. The license is valid for 30 days from the time the licensing agent on Kauaʻi prints out your application. The cost is $65.00.
•Both bride and groom still need to appear before a licensing agent on Kauaʻi with current
photo ID - driver's license or passport. You'll also need the locator number found in the top right hand corner of your application (no need to print it out). Most agents are now charging $5.00 to cover their printing costs. Licensing agents are located around the island and require an appointment for which I am happy to assist you with.
•The license is given to Kahu at the time of the ceremony. He then verifies the license and attests to performing the ceremony on the Dept. of Health website. You're able to access a printable copy of your temporary marriage certificate after 72 business hours. You'll receive your official marriage certificate in the mail in approximately 90 days or sooner. If you want to expedite the process there is a form that you'll be given when you apply for your license, for which there is an extra fee.
•Witnesses are no longer required to sign the marriage certificate, however, there are 2 lines where they may do so if you have family or friends attending your ceremony
and want to include them.